Mediation. What is it and Why?

The Benefits of Mediation

12/19/20234 min read

Mediation; What is it and Why?

You may ask yourself, what is mediation and what are the benefits? Simply put mediation is a way to resolve a conflict between two people. The goal is to quickly help the parties amicably solve the matter and be free to move ahead with their lives and relationships obstacle free.

The benefits of mediation are healthy relationships and low cost, amicable agreements.

Conflicts arise naturally as part of life. In ongoing, healthy relationships mediation is used to solve dividing issues. This frees the relationship to move forward and thrive.

If the relationship has ended and help is needed to separate or divorce, mediation guides the parties into amicable agreements regarding finances and co-parenting when the kids are involved.

Additionally, there are times in life when agreements and decisions are made such as when we marry, retire or how to estate plan. A mediator can help guide the process and form an agreement.

Mediation for Ongoing Relationships

Relationships encounter life choices that can be dividing. Beach or mountains? Public school verses private school? When to retire and how? Anything from where to live to where to vacation can cause a rift in an otherwise healthy relationship. Mediation can quickly and amicably resolve the matter and free the relationship to thrive obstacle free.

Left alone, a conflict causes anger and resentment that can deteriorate an otherwise healthy, loving relationship. But therapy is not the answer when the upset is simply caused by an issue where a decision needs to be made. A mediator guides the parties on a harmonious path to resolution of the issue.

Lets take an example. Do the kids go to public or private school? Therapy is not what is needed to decide if the kids go to public or private school. Mediation, on the other hand, focuses on guiding the parties to quickly create a solution that is right for them. A mediator will guide the process of making a decision to a solution both can be happy with. All factors will be considered and the effects on each parties including in this case, of course, the kids!

Mediation for Separation & Divorce Agreements

If you have decided to separate or divorce, you'll need a property and financial agreement. A mediator can guide you and your partner through your property and financial issues to an agreement. A mediated agreement is a swift resolution that empowers parties to have a say in the outcome, while avoiding high court costs. By avoiding the adversarial nature of litigation, mediation offers a more peaceful and harmonious path towards resolution. With its speed, affordability, and positive outcomes, mediation proves to be an optimal choice for those seeking a prompt and fair agreement.

Mediation for Co-Parenting Agreements

When parents decide to divorce, it's crucial to establish a co-parenting plan. The plan helps the parents and children create a both a daily schedule and provides a sense of peace, normality, and routine in their lives. The co-parenting plan can be seen as the architect of the new family, designing a structure that allows both parents to actively participate in their children's upbringing while navigating the challenges of separation. This plan serves as a guide, ensuring that the children's best interests are prioritized and their emotional well-being is protected throughout the process

Mediation Verses Court Litigation

Mediation offers significant advantages over court litigation. Firstly, the financial costs involved in mediation are considerably lower compared to those incurred in a court battle. This means that individuals can save a significant amount of money by opting for mediation. Secondly, mediation is a much faster process than court litigation. Instead of waiting for prolonged periods of time for a court date, mediation allows for quicker resolutions, ensuring a more efficient and timely outcome. Lastly, and perhaps most importantly, mediation takes into consideration the well-being of both parties involved, as well as their families. It emphasizes a more holistic approach, aiming to find solutions that are fair and considerate of everyone's needs, fostering a healthier and more amicable post-conflict environment.

Pre & Post Nuptial Agreement

The decision to get married is exciting and joyful! However, the topic of shared finances can dampen the mood. If you are both young and just starting out together, it might make sense to combine assets and share everything. But in cases where one or both partners have established careers or children from previous marriages, a prenuptial agreement can ensure the security of both parties. Surprisingly, a prenuptial agreement can actually strengthen a marriage by providing a solid foundation and a clear understanding of each other's financial situations. It allows both spouses to openly discuss their expectations and to protect themselves and their assets in case of any future uncertainties. Mediation can quickly help create a loving and fair agreement you both can be happy with.

Retirement & Estate Planning

Relationships mature and so do our needs. At some point the topic of retirement and estate planning needs to be addressed. If the issue is causing stress or uncertainty in you or within your relationship, mediation can help guide you through the decisions that need to be made. The peace of mind of having all in order is priceless!

Contact Us

This introduction to the benefits of mediation is a good first step. The next step, should mediation be of interest to you, is to call us. We are happy to chat with you free of charge and further explain mediation. We can answer questions you may have about the mediation process. We look forward to speaking with you!